NEW YORK (AP) 鈥� Dr. Lisa Walling鈥檚 first house call of the day was with a particularly fluffy hospice patient 鈥� a 13-year-old Newfoundland named Rugby.
Rugby happily licked a plate of peanut butter as Walling inserted needles along her back; acupuncture and a ketamine injection to help with pain and mobility problems.
As an end-of-life care veterinarian, Walling considers both pet and owner to be her patients. She鈥檚 there to make sure animals are as comfortable as possible in their final days, and help humans through the difficult decision of knowing when it鈥檚 time to say goodbye.
鈥淚 find a lot of the time, the biggest part of my job is helping the owners,鈥� said Walling. When it came time to euthanize Rugby at a later visit, the whole family was there.
There are a number of options available to help aging pets and their caregivers, including hospice and palliative care, at-home euthanasia and a growing number of so-called pet death doulas. But navigating decisions around the end of their life can still feel overwhelming. Here are some ways you can take care of your pet and yourself.
How can I make my elderly pet more comfortable?
Hospice and palliative care veterinarians like Walling specialize in home visits, which can be a good option if transporting your pet to the vet鈥檚 office becomes too difficult.
The International Association for Animal Hospice and Palliative Care maintains a of its members.
Vets can prescribe medication to treat infections, pain and chronic conditions, and help with diet changes. But there are simple things owners can do themselves around the house to make their pet more comfortable.
As dogs age and their limbs become stiffer, slippery floors like hardwood and tile become difficult to walk on. Try putting carpet runners or yoga mats where your pet walks, and especially where they stand to eat. For breeds with longer hair, you can trim the fur off the bottom of their paws to give their pads more grip.
鈥淲e had to take all of the area rugs and patchwork our kitchen,鈥� said Rugby鈥檚 owner, Sam Boege.
For larger dogs that need help getting up or going outside, Walling recommends a special harness that has front and rear handles.
Cats don鈥檛 struggle with slippery floors as much, but they do get arthritis. If your cat is having trouble stepping up into their litter box, it might be a good idea to get one that鈥檚 lower to the ground.
For both dogs and cats, try raising the food and water bowls so they don鈥檛 have to bend down as much.
How do you know when it's time to say goodbye to your pet?
If medication and pain management aren鈥檛 relieving your pet鈥檚 suffering and you鈥檙e trying to decide if it may be time to let them go, look for signs like loss of appetite and difficulty breathing 鈥� and check with your vet.
鈥淭here is a spectrum of time when a euthanasia is an appropriate decision,鈥� said Dr. Dani McVety, a veterinarian who founded Lap of Love, the country鈥檚 largest network of at-home euthanasia providers.
Lap of Love provides on its website that can be used to evaluate your animal鈥檚 quality of life.
Planning for at-home euthanasia can be a good choice for pets who aren鈥檛 experiencing immediate medical emergencies. It鈥檚 smart to prepare ahead of time and understand how the procedure works so you can focus on your pet in their last days.
鈥淵ou鈥檙e not shortening their life, you鈥檙e shortening their death,鈥� Walling said.
Where to turn for emotional support at the end of your pet's life
You don鈥檛 have to go through the end of your pet's life alone.
The Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement provides information on its to help pet owners understand euthanasia and grief. Lap of Love offers pet loss several times a week. There are also pet loss counselors, grief specialists and animal chaplains who offer one-on-one support.
Animal end-of-life doulas, or 鈥渄eath doulas,鈥� offer emotional, spiritual and informational support around the time of death. They aren鈥檛 required to have medical training, but may work with veterinary providers. A doula can help owners process feelings of grief and loss or assist with practical steps like planning for final days.
鈥淓verybody鈥檚 different,鈥� said Lauren Seeley, a death doula based in New York City. 鈥淲hat I find is most people aren鈥檛 ready to deal with it until it鈥檚 already happened.鈥�
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Mary Conlon, The Associated Press
